Brigham Young University President C. Shane Reese told students during a Sept. 8 devotional that embracing awkwardness and the discomfort of friction is essential for personal growth. Speaking at the BYU Marriott Center, Reese encouraged the campus community to view stumbles and social discomfort as signs of progress rather than failures.
Spiritual Listening and Prayer
The devotional, which served as the first for the fall 2026 semester, featured remarks from both President Reese and his wife, Wendy Reese. Wendy Reese focused her address on the importance of spiritual listening, advising students to find quiet time each day to connect with Heavenly Father. She suggested that daily prayer serves as a way to unite oneself with God's perspective.
Tuning Out Distractions
Wendy Reese cautioned against the distractions that can impede spiritual focus, such as social media, finances, schoolwork, and world events. She encouraged students to practice patience when waiting for answers to prayer, suggesting they write down immediate thoughts and remember past instances where the Lord has answered them. According to BYU news, she invited students to train their spiritual senses to recognize the voice of the Lord.
The Value of Awkwardness
President Reese's address focused on three primary themes: embracing awkwardness, the risks of a frictionless life, and turning to Jesus Christ. Regarding awkwardness, he noted that new semesters bring new roommates, professors, and friends, all of which create uncomfortable moments. He described these moments as "badges of becoming" and urged students not to be embarrassed by stumbles.
The Risks of Frictionless Living
The BYU president also warned against the potential dangers of a "frictionless" life driven by technology. Referencing the growing influence of artificial intelligence and a 30-year-old Los Angeles Times article regarding technological convenience, Reese argued that too much ease can hinder discernment. He stated that friction provides the space necessary for thinking and growth, and he encouraged students to put away their phones and earbuds to foster real connections.
Following the Savior's Example
President Reese concluded by pointing to Jesus Christ as the ultimate example of outward-looking service. He encouraged students to slow down and make meaningful connections with those around them, following the Savior's example of ministering to individuals, including those who are often overlooked.
A Historic Era for BYU
The address occurred as BYU enters the first year of the second half of its second century, following its 150th anniversary. President Reese noted that the university will place a special emphasis on worship in anticipation of the upcoming dedication of the new Salt Lake Temple.
